Fight Or Flight

Nothing kicks in your fight or flight mode faster than a call from your crying young adult daughter telling you that someone is trying to get $5000 out of her and threatening her with arrest. It was a scam, of course. But they plied her with so much information, instructions, and threats that her headContinue reading “Fight Or Flight”

Three’s A Crowd??

Ever notice what a bad rap the number three gets? Three strikes and you are out; A three-ring circus; Three sheets to the wind; Three alarm fire, 3rd Wheel. Sadly, deaths seem to come in threes; one famous person dies, followed quickly by two others. Then there is our title, “Three’s A Crowd” Or is it? Find out the power in 3 in this week’s It’s a Hard life.

Wrestling Life

The other day, one of my favorite pastors preached on wrestling. Yes, wrestling. Now, this is near and dear to my heart because I went to a private high school where wrestling was king. All the big guys went to public school to play football and get a chance at a college scholarship, and that left us with a team as small as our marching band. Our wrestling team took States back-to-back for decades. If you know the sport, you have to be the exact weight of that class. If you are wrestling 120, you have to weigh precisely 120. Except for the heavyweight division, you can tip the scales from 183-285. This brings me to the sermon…

Join The”Febra-lution”

I have coined a new phrase and tradition for all of us procrastinators: Febra-Lution. We all make New Year’s Resolutions. Mine was to step up my prayer life, start writing my blog once a week, AGAIN, and get to the gym several times a week, AGAIN. Well, here it is, a month and a halfContinue reading “Join The”Febra-lution””

Beauty From Brokenness

The Japanese have a beautiful art form of repairing broken bowls called kintsugi (golden repair).   The more than 4 centuries old method honors the broken item’s rich history by emphasizing, not hiding, the break. Local craftsman stumbled upon the method after the 15th Century Shogun broke his favorite tea bowl and some poor methods wereContinue reading “Beauty From Brokenness”

I scared God & Looked What Happened!

13 May 2016 I scared God.  At least according to my friend Luis.  22 years ago, I hit my knees on the floor of my Phoenix apartment and told God, I got it.  If it was just Him and me for the rest of my life, that would be enough for me.  Now I wasContinue reading “I scared God & Looked What Happened!”